Hey guys :) Welcome back to my blog! Today I am going to share how keeping my cookie has been such a huge blessing in my dating life.
Lets be honest when you date someone , give it up ,and then it ends you don't feel good. There is a piece of you missing that quite frankly you can never take back!
If you have read my book www.jennifermichellem.com/books.html you know that my past relationships were not much fun and ended in heart break numerous times.
One thing that changed was keeping my legs closed.
Face it when you have sex with someone you connect on a deeper level , your emotions lead the way vs your intellect and spirit.
How many times have you made a healthy decision from your emotions......I wont wait lol
We just dont in relationships especially so I decided to set boundaries....Starting with SEX!
So Here are 3 ways its helped me.
1. CLARITY! I cannot begin to tell you how easy it is to decide whether a guy is worth my time or not. I've tried the other way trust me and would wake up like why did i do this? Knowing good and well I was NOT really interested in the guy. When you don't have cloudy ,soul tie emotions you wont waste time on the wrong person. PERIOD!
Also its going to give you time to create an organic connection with your girl/guy of interest.
2. I am child, and STD FREE! Means alot because my desire is to have a family with both parents involved . I also don't want any disease. Keeping my legs closed has been a key to obtaining both goals. Less stress in Jesus name! This is the only 100% proven birth control.
3. Peace of Mind.
There is nothing like not having to worry about being convicted by God . I live to honor and please him. Now Im not perfect nor will I ever be. However if I can do my best to please him I WILL :)