Hey yall been a minute since I blogged but here I am :)
Today I want to share my perspective briefly on the power of choice.
As most of you know I am an author (still can't believe it) ,and in my first book I shared alot of my relationship experiences. I shared the highs , lows , and the triumphs.
Well before I moved to ATL I took a dating BREAK! Since moving to ATL I've started dating again. Im not going to share all the deets ,but one thing that Ive learned is the power of " Decision".
Some believe there is one person in the world for everyone. Some believe there is a magical formula to make love appear. I have found peace in the fact that there is someone you will Choose to be with for the rest of your life , and if its Gods will coupled with their will they will choose you too.
I think that many great people have been brought together , and chose not to be in relationships based off their preference . Let be clear when I say that I believe preferences matter. They should not be the only deciding factor , but they matter .
God can 100% be for a relationship but it takes two people to agree with God. Unfortunately thats not always the case.
So recently Ive opened my heart to the power of choosing, and also remember I choose to be chosen. Its given me peace that I will NEVER miss the guy God has for me. If its Gods will for you to marry you will.
Its time for single women and men to embrace who we are at the core , develop into the person we were meant to be , and not apologize or attempt to change ourselves when someone does not see our dopeness.
The reality is someone is going to choose YOU!
The other reality is you are going to choose them back!
So lets not sit back and wait for someone to fall into our laps magically ,wrapped in everything we've always wanted. Also lets stop letting rejection run our lives. Instead lets fall so madly in love with ourselves that whether we are chosen are or not we are still comfortable , and confident WITH YOU.